DEAR FEMINIST

Hey guys, it’s talk time and I really want everyone to comment on this. Someone could probably change my perception about feminism. What can I call this talk today, probably the TABLE SHAKING segment. Lol… on a very light mood.

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Feminism according to Wikipedia is the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes and organized activity on behalf of women’s rights and interests

I have seen different types of women as I grew up but never have I been able to fantom the reason why everyone behaves differently.

We are different in our own different ways and that is what I believe but I still want to understand the concept of feminism which is turning into a mediocre.

They write and state that a woman should be happy in different ways and that she is beautiful without a man but they can’t stay without a man in their lives. Is feminism a form of lifestyle that states a particular thing because they feel a particular way at a particular time.

I see it everywhere around me, on the social media, a female comes out and state that a woman is beautiful in all ways, in and out and what not but in the real sense they still body shame their fellow females. When the opportunity comes for you to pick her for the job, you still think twice because she is a ‘Woman’

The feminist in you tells you that by stating certain words out as passing a message across to other girls makes you feel better but you don’t like their progress, you feel entitled like progress should be yours alone. A lot of people have female friends in business, but then you decide to go all the way to the market to buy the same product because of a stipend that makes the difference. You can’t support a friend’s dream in fact to an average woman they see their fellow female as the competition and it’s okay for the men to succeed as long as it isn’t the woman that is winning. An average woman would rather root for a man to be in a particular position than their fellow woman irrespective of whether the woman has more to offer.

How beautiful are we in and out?

How feminist are you if you do not like the progress of your fellow female? How feminist are you if you cannot lift another female up in all ways irrespective of her color and body shape, her level of I.Q. Are you really better than the next woman?

It’s fine if a woman loves herself in all ways without the believe that she needs to be a certain way to please a man. It is true that as a strong woman you can stand up tall and be anything you want to be. You can be everything and more when you are with the right one, nobody wants to die lonely. Meet a man, fall in love and be happy and still slay your goals. The social media lifestyle that makes every woman a feminist isn’t something everyone should follow. The feminist on social media could be on her knees begging a man indoors don’t be deceived.

Dear woman, you are beautiful in all ways. Don’t let anyone define what beauty means to you. Be your own beautiful.

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